If You Don't Take Yourself Seriously, Who Will?

   If you don't take yourself seriously, who will?

I received a Tinder message today that said "You should come over and watch Netflix and Cuddle". No "hi, how are ya?" No "tell me something about yourself"; just an immediate invitation to crawl into some guys bed.

             First I though well this is Tinder, it's what the app was created for. People get on Tinder to find others close to them that are interested in meeting and hooking up. You judge someone solely on their pictures and whatever information they put in their about me section. This being said of course there are going to be some douche bags on this app. There are also people like me though, who work on the road alone and every once in a while just crave conversation. I don't want random hook ups anymore; I'm almost 27 years old I'm past that point (mostly). I don't want to come cuddle, or stay over because random boy doesn't like sleeping alone. I want intelligent stimulating conversation; if it leads to a meeting way later down the road then ok but that's not the reason I have a Tinder profile.


           My second thought was has this worked for this boy ( I call him a boy because of his approach) before. I don't think that women realize the impact they anonymously have on other women because they make things so easy for guys. Maybe you're 22 and can have any guy you want and then later decide to settle down with one of them and it works out for you. I on the other hand am almost 30 and have a very long list of standards. You by being a trashy, easy, skank are ruining what could be a decent guy by making the chase so damn easy for him. STOP IT! No seriously from all women out there who want you to take yourself seriously STOP IT!

   I realize that this blog is going to make me sound bitter. Just trust me that I am not! Please!? I am simply looking for that person to share my life with. The person who doesn't have 302455010184 children with random other women; the person who does not have just as many ex lovers. I want a man that is for ME! Until then I feel better by pointing out what I do and do not like about the dating world.

 

 

 

Am I the Only One?

                             Am I the Only One?

This is my very first blog post/rant. I am a 27 year old single, successful, independent female. Can you guess what my favorite question is? "Why is someone as pretty as you single?" WHAT!? Are you kidding me!? I don't think a relationship status has anything to do with how good looking someone is. The number one factor that KEEPS me single is that I WILL NOT PUT UP WITH THE BULL SHIT. I know what I want/deserve. It's carved out in my heart; it's formed in my brain. No matter how hard I try I cannot make myself settle for less then what I WANT!

 

Why is it so hard for women to be alone? Why do people act like I'm diseased because I choose to be single?

 

 I pray every night before I go to sleep; it's how I was raised. Every night at the end of my prayer I thank the Lord for creating my soul mate. You read it right! I thank him for creating the one person out there who will appreciate, love, and cherish me more than anyone else is capable of doing. I also thank him for keeping him from me until he knows I'm ready to do the same. This is the one thing I wish I could share with other females. Yes I believe in soul mates, what I do not believe in is trying to create your own. Everyone is not THE ONE. God's plan is not always our plan. If more people held out for the right one I wouldn't be so damn annoyed with all the weddings, divorces, and continuous baby daddy drama.

 

To follow is going to be a series of stories, situations if you will that I have been through. I need to share them and how ridiculous they are. Well I don't know about need to, I guess want to is more like it. Anyway whoever ENJOY!