Wednesday, February 4, 2015

Am I the Only One?

                             Am I the Only One?




This is my very first blog post/rant. I am a 27 year old single, successful, independent female. Can you guess what my favorite question is? "Why is someone as pretty as you single?" WHAT!? Are you kidding me!? I don't think a relationship status has anything to do with how good looking someone is. The number one factor that KEEPS me single is that I WILL NOT PUT UP WITH THE BULL SHIT. I know what I want/deserve. It's carved out in my heart; it's formed in my brain. No matter how hard I try I cannot make myself settle for less then what I WANT!

 

Why is it so hard for women to be alone? Why do people act like I'm diseased because I choose to be single?

 

 I pray every night before I go to sleep; it's how I was raised. Every night at the end of my prayer I thank the Lord for creating my soul mate. You read it right! I thank him for creating the one person out there who will appreciate, love, and cherish me more than anyone else is capable of doing. I also thank him for keeping him from me until he knows I'm ready to do the same. This is the one thing I wish I could share with other females. Yes I believe in soul mates, what I do not believe in is trying to create your own. Everyone is not THE ONE. God's plan is not always our plan. If more people held out for the right one I wouldn't be so damn annoyed with all the weddings, divorces, and continuous baby daddy drama.

 

To follow is going to be a series of stories, situations if you will that I have been through. I need to share them and how ridiculous they are. Well I don't know about need to, I guess want to is more like it. Anyway whoever ENJOY!